Good medicine?
Why not just let it be? Can I make my wife feel like an opulent millionaire? Caring for loved ones and our relationships is an excellent form of medicine.
Being human is not complete without someone you love and can nurture.
It is equally important to have someone care for and nurture you.
You can make life and succeed more enjoyable when you have someone with whom to share it.
Is it worth telling a story if you don’t have someone to relate?
The best spice in life? Love!
What if…
What if you are not happy with your relationship? Even if everything has failed, what if she’s still unhappy? You aren’t alone. Then what?
You can have good and bad news.
Unfortunately, relationships can be difficult to sustain. As we age, our relationships become more comfortable. Before you know it we’re taking one another for granted and overstepping each others boundaries.
Perhaps you are saying that she doesn’t value me. To provide for my family, I work 70 hours per week. All she can complain about is me not giving her enough. It’s not like we don’t argue or give each other silent treatment.
These are important issues that we need to discuss. However, it is possible to learn from the mistakes of the past.
You may have believed that you had to learn from your past failures. If we become so upset about the past and get too emotional, it is time to forget or forgive.
In no way am I blaming one or the other partner. To tango, it takes two.
If you’re fed up of feeling miserable everytime you return home, you should take the first steps towards establishing a more loving relationship.
Your next thoughts might be, “hey, why must I make the changes first?” If you’re looking for happiness in your marriage, it is time to give up keeping track.
Is it time to begin the first day in your NEW marital relationship? It’s the one that you are eager to share with your wife about your day. You can enjoy great vacations with your spouse? You feel valued, loved and respected.
Let’s go!
The Good News…
Some things appeal to women. These things can change the dynamic of your relationship quickly and dramatically.
You can do many things to ignite an old flame within your partner and make them feel valued, loved, cherished, and, yes, like millionaires.
Note: Take some time to reflect on her before you continue reading.
TRUELY cares. This is a crucial step in helping her choose between different behavior options on the Love Actions List.
Some women are happy to get presents. Other women just like to have you talk with them. Still others simply want you sit there and chat. While some want to give gifts, other women want you respect their home and help them around the house. Finding the perfect gift is crucial. “prescription”For success.
You can speak to her heart
You can make a Love Actions plan for your spouse by looking at the evidence she has provided. It will be comforting for her to know that you think about her and are sensitive to her wishes. Keep track of the responses to these memories questions. Write them now, without worrying about how you’d like to duplicate them.
You don’t have the time or desire to go back to what she was passionate about.
Are there things she’s asking you to do?
Is it possible for her to smile when she says or does certain things?
Where was it she wanted to travel but couldn’t get around to?
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Keep these points in mind as you go. You can either choose to add some ideas or match the ones you already have, but you should also consider any other ideas that you think would make her happy and excited.
Love Gifts List
□ First and foremost, I know this seems too simple, but sometimes all a woman needs is attention and time. This simple formula will help you to connect with your woman.
Attention = Time = Million Dollars
Pay attention to what she is saying and think of the things that are important.
Time = Undivided. Place your phone, cell phone, and PDA away from the family. You may not have really listened to her in quite some time so this may take time. Talk to her about the things that interest you. RESPOND to her by asking more questions. Do this at least once per week.
These questions will assist you in reconnecting:
Which regrets do you have? What are your biggest challenges?
Which are your biggest fears?
Is there anything she’s done that is crazy? Is it something she would like to do?
How do you see her future hopes?
How will her age determine how successful she is in the areas of love and family?
□ Schedule a weekend off from work where the two of you can go away together. Find out where she would like to travel first. Take some time to walk, eat, or simply relax. Take her shopping to find a gift. You can ask her for what she wants, and then wait. Then tell her that you are looking to buy something special that will make her feel loved. Remember when you first started dating. Discuss your feelings for her, and the reasons you chose to marry her.
In love.
□ Buy a card for her and write something special for her. Let her know what you admire about her and the way you love them. Test it out on scratch paper to hear how it feels.
Consider the time you were together. Or would you just have written I Love You instead? You could have simply written I Love You or gushed about what she smells like. It’s how you feel about her when you first see her.
□ Get your message across in different ways! Surprises can be fun, and make your life even more exciting. This also shows you care about her and that you cannot wait for her to hear. Sticky note: Put it in your briefcase. You can leave a message for her answering machine or voicemail. If it’s not your usual behavior, a little can go a long ways. You will begin to see the changes in her behavior.
□ Make and effort to speak well of her when you speak to your friends and family. Find a way for you to compliment her or give her rave reviews when someone questions about your children. Your heart will be filled with joy and she will feel secure in your arms.
□ Do something new and fun together. We forget how important it is to have fun with our friends and family. You don’t have to be the only one who goes to golf. Ask your friend to take you to an amusement park and play with us. You can do something new or different that you’ve not done in a long time. Make a birthday cake together, listen to music together, or play mini golf. It’s not competitive, but it gives you the chance to have fun and make new memories.
For a marriage that is tired, laughter can help you get through it.
Note down your thoughts and ideas. You should also set a date for each activity. Ask her about her plans.
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You should have found some inspiration to get you through the next days. If you feel that there is tension, you might be able to take things slow. A good place to start is the one that suggests time and attention. It is possible that your marriage needs a support system. Support is available if you are in this situation.
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The world’s best relationship coaches provide support and accountability for couples. They help them start living the life they always dreamed of.
I don’t know. They spend time brainstorming possible solutions for problems and issues once a week. This is a great way to keep their relationships healthy and satisfying.
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You can make your wife feel worth one million dollars by making her feel valued!
Let me know how it changed your life and what you learned from them.