Your daily activities should include everyday joy, happiness and enjoyment. You might not enjoy the thrill of watching the sunrise rise on the mountain top after a morning hike or weekend tramp. But if you do, make sure you are doing it every day. There is no other person like you, and you are the only one.
For you to be motivated to do these things, it is important to have positive feelings and a positive outlook. You will find it easier to sit in your bed and slouch at home, and you’ll feel more unhappy about your whole life. My attitude training has helped me to teach other people what I have learned.
Fulfillment and enjoyment are the key ingredients to a happy life. You have control over how you include these elements in your daily life. It could be the ocean, forest, temple or church, or a golf course that gives you tranquility or a feeling of inner peace. On your quest to be yourself, you need to identify it, along with the ideal partner, career, financial, and lifestyle choices.
If you are able to identify a goal, objective, purpose, or mission for your life, it will give you a sense of urgency and a ‘energy’ to succeed. Your life will be more exciting and motivating.
It’s good to look back at the year before and reflect on what was accomplished. If you haven’t done it before, now is the time to start. You need to understand why you are having difficulty achieving your goals. There are several possible explanations.
1 You needed to complete some background research before you could work towards your goal.
Sometimes, it is necessary to achieve several small goals before you reach the big final goal. It’s great that each step of the journey is a positive one. I.e. In order to race a marathon, you might need to lose weight or improve your nutrition to increase your stamina.
2 Did you lose motivation?
You must be clear about what you want when working towards your goal. It’s less likely that you will be motivated by someone who is asking you to do a race. This could lead to you feeling like you “should” do it in order for them to be happy. You are only making yourself miserable. It is common for many people to experience this problem. It can feel easier to “go along with the flow” than it does to cause disagreements. The person may not be trying to hide their responsibility, but rather is not lacking in the skills of communication and self-esteem to help break the cycle.
3. Were you scared of losing a friend when you changed your life?
When you’re working toward a goal, it is possible to experience changes. People you may have been on social occasions with might encourage you to not lose weight. You were liked ‘as is’. The decision to make a change to improve your health is up to you. Your associates may be forced to change. One example of a weekly ritual is two trips to the local restaurant that serves unhealthy food. Instead of going to the restaurant, you decide to head to the gym. You are alone and they have to agree with you. They are not happy that you want to resolve your health problems, but they will encourage you to stay the way you are. Remember that you’re unique, and it is important to discover who you can be. In this case, being fit and healthy.
Do not be discouraged by the loss of a friend. New people will come into your life if you make positive changes.
4 Did you change your goal?
Great! It is okay not to achieve just because your goal has changed. It was not the right goal. This is your chance to reset the focus for the coming year.
It is important to reach your goals and have the time you need to live your dream life. While some individuals seem to be able to achieve this goal early on in their lives, others take longer or never do. To find happiness and fulfillment, stop zigzagging in life. Instead, focus on your goals. It may be identifying your dreams, which for some is even possible if you have been engulfed in others’ dreams.
Understanding your core values and beliefs will help you set realistic goals. That’s what I mean by WIIFM is what it’s worth for me. eg. You might experience additional benefits if you have a health goal such as losing weight or building endurance for your marathon. These factors can increase your enthusiasm for achieving your goals.
You may not have thought much about your values. This can lead to goals that are inconsistent with who and what you believe. As a first step towards your personal goal of being yourself, it is crucial to examine your values. As you begin to set your goals, each one must be in line with your values. If you fail to do this, your goal will be shattered by inner conflict. Eg. But you want to stay healthy but continue smoking. You can decide what you want, and then overcome any obstacles that may come your way. Your life will be much more fulfilling if you are working toward your goal.
Below are ten ways to set goals, objectives and target settings for your life.
Ten Tips to Creating Magic in Your Life
1. You can take some time to dream, write or draw what you want.
2. Your right-brain creative thinking is what created your MAGIC (the first thing that came to mind).
3. Your left brain’s analytical side will help you plan how to get there.
4. Accept that you’ll be tested and ask for assistance.
5. Visualize achieving your goals.
6. Prepare to accept sacrifices and change.
7. Enjoy life, no matter what stage you are at.
8. Enjoy your life and be mindful of your health.
9. Do not sweat the little things.
10. Give yourself a pat on the back, and be sure to reward yourself every day.
Your quest for being yourself will bring you challenges. It is thrilling, frightening and sometimes even terrifying to try out being yourself. To align your mind, body, soul and mental thinking to make it work harmoniously, you need to be able to communicate, understand, communicate, overcome fear and have the courage to do so. They will bring you happiness and joy. This is a wonderful way to live. This may require you to read books and attend classes. You will find signals on your way that tell you which route to choose. Your free choice will determine which path you choose. Enjoy the journey! You don’t have to follow others. Let’s take an example.
A while back I had a great round of golf with my partner, who has a low handicap. However, my mother, a seventy-four-year old woman is midway handicap. The walk was lovely, with beautiful trees and birds, which I thoroughly enjoyed. From the 100 or so shots I made, about fifteen percent were in the right direction. They also traveled an acceptable distance. As I played, I changed my ball onto the grass. When my ball “flew” to another fairway I informed them that I was new to this game and asked if they would please return my ball. They agreed. My mother was amazed! My putting on $500 putter by my partner was a good experience for me. Although I won’t be a professional golfer, it was a fun time . My mother won’t be playing much golf with me without understanding that this is a game I enjoy and not something serious. My plan is to go for a stroll with my partners and pull the trundler. Then, when we feel like having a good time, I’ll join them for a game. Professional lessons would be a great benefit to me if I choose to go on with my golfing career. It’s an enjoyable environment that is good for my health, great exercise and fun, and I love golf. We wish you all the best in your endeavor to be unique.