It’s like playing the dating game in a minefield. You have so many challenges that it is very hard to navigate. There are serial daters, needy women and the crazy. You have then the most hated woman of them all: the gold diggers.
The gold diggers can be a fierce bunch. The gold diggers are like hungry lionesses, always looking for new opportunities. They’re always on the lookout “sponsors.”My friends and I coin this term when we see men buying drinks for girls at bars and clubs. Men love sponsoring ladies’ nights on the town, thinking it will make them money. It never does. The only thing they do is to get the girls drunk and make the boys happy. Although these girls may accept drinks from guys at the club, it is not gold diggerish to take drinks from someone you don’t like.
The gold diggers are usually men that have little to no interest in the pursuit of money and special privileges. They are easy to spot. If you are not a skilled gold digger, the woman will be more interested in your questions.
Which type of car are you driving?
What amount of money can you earn?
Is your job paying you well?
You get it. More gold miners are savvy. These women will not ask questions about your cars and money. They are more discreet. They will wait until they feel they have the right to access your wallet. You don’t have to be worried. After you have her number, set up a date and choose your partner. “get to know you” type date. Pick a park, beach, or coffee shop near you. The gold diggers won’t take their dogs for walks or coffee. They travel abroad, eat expensive meals and go out for filet mignon. If you are genuinely interested in meeting women, take them for a walk or go mini golfing. If you suspect you might have one, offer to go on a casual date.